Finding Purpose, One Dinner at a Time
吃瓜大本营鈥檚 4D Purpose Dinners bring students, faculty, staff, and alumni together for informal conversations that challenge career expectations, build connections, and open doors.
At the 吃瓜大本营, conversations about purpose aren鈥檛 confined to classrooms or career fairs鈥攖hey鈥檙e happening over dinner.
Hosted by Student Affairs, 4D Purpose Dinners are quarterly gatherings designed to help students explore what it means to build a meaningful life and career鈥攁 key dimension of 吃瓜大本营鈥檚 4D Experience. Started in the fall of 2024, the events have become sought-after opportunities for students to connect with professionals across disciplines and learn from their experiences of finding their purpose.
Held in Community Commons, the dinners typically bring together 45 to 65 undergraduate and graduate students with faculty and staff or, for the first time this spring, alumni. The format is simple but intentional: Each table is hosted by a professional who offers a brief introduction, then engages students in conversation before rotating to another group.
The idea evolved from an earlier program called 鈥淧rofessors, Plates, and Perspectives,鈥 but Purpose Dinners were reimagined with a broader goal in mind. 鈥淭his idea was born out of students who would come to us and say, 鈥業 already feel behind,鈥欌 says Audrey Townsend, PhD, director of 4D experiential learning. 鈥淭hey feel like if they miss an internship or an opportunity or don鈥檛 know what they鈥檙e going to do, they鈥檒l be unsuccessful.鈥
In response, the 4D team brought together faculty and staff from across disciplines鈥攍aw, business, education, human resources, campus safety, and more鈥攖o share their own nonlinear career journeys. The result is what Townsend describes as an 鈥渁nti-networking event,鈥 one that lowers pressure and prioritizes authenticity.
鈥淲e want students to be comfortable and come as they are,鈥 she says. Conversations are often guided by a simple question, such as, 鈥淗ow did you find your purpose?鈥濃攂ut for the most part, they unfold organically.
That openness is central to the dinners鈥 impact. 鈥淩eally, the goal is to lessen the anxiety around what students perceive as the prescribed track,鈥 Townsend says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 disrupting this idea that you are at point A as a student and point B is your dream career. It鈥檚 really [about the] twists and turns before you figure out where you need to be.鈥
Students find clarity and opportunity through conversation
When Maren Lynch, a third-year听whose major is physiology in health and disease, attended a Purpose Dinner a year ago, she had just declared her major and was still feeling uncertain about what she wanted to do in the future.
She remembers speaking with one of her former chemistry professors and hearing about the steps he took in his own life鈥攆rom the miliary to academia. 鈥淪eeing that kind of progression helped me realize there isn鈥檛 just one definition of success,鈥 Lynch says. 鈥淭he conversations made me think more deeply about my own path and helped me feel more grounded in myself. I realized it鈥檚 okay not to know exactly what I want to do with my degree.鈥澨
Townsend says this kind of positive feedback is exactly what they hope for. On a recent post-dinner survey, more than 90% of participants agreed that the experience had given them a fresh perspective on their education or life. Many have attended more than one dinner, drawn by the chance to connect with people they might not otherwise meet. Those connections can be powerful鈥攕ometimes even leading to internships or research opportunities.
That was the case for Pluto Hassan, a third-year computer science major. Hassan was urged to attend his first purpose dinner last fall by Krystoff Kissoon, 4D assistant director of co-curricular innovation. Hassan works with the 4D education team and is a peer coordinator for the听 (Equity in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) program in the Ritchie School of Engineering and Computer Science.听
While Hassan was sitting at a table with anthropology professor Esteban Gomez, what began as a simple introduction quickly turned into a job offer. Hassan, who had been seeking more interdisciplinary experiences beyond the typical STEM 鈥渂ubble,鈥 is now preparing to begin work as a research assistant for Gomez, helping build a system to collect data from social media platforms and analyze engagement.
鈥淚t was all because I went to the Purpose Dinner and talked with professors outside my department,鈥 Hassan says. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 think there would be an opportunity for me in anthropology doing something I鈥檓 really passionate about.鈥
Hassan was also inspired to spearhead a special E-STEM Purpose Dinner last month, an event that connected STEM alumni professionals with current STEM students.听
This spring鈥檚 Purpose Dinner on April 16 also expanded in scope to include alumni for the first time. Student Affairs partnered with the offices of advancement and alumni engagement to recruit eight graduates鈥攊n industries ranging from law and medicine to politics and communications鈥攐ffering students a glimpse of life after 吃瓜大本营 from those who have lived it.
鈥淲e have so many notable alumni and so many folks in different fields, so it鈥檚 exciting to bring them in,鈥 Townsend says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 great to switch it up and see what the experience is like for both students and alumni.鈥
Registration for the Purpose Dinners takes place on听. Alumni who are interested in participating in a future dinner can email听Audrey.Townsend@du.edu.听
4D Symposium听to highlight purpose-driven learning
Every year, 吃瓜大本营鈥檚 4D Symposium brings together faculty, staff, and students to focus on the 4D Experience, the University鈥檚 holistic approach to higher education. The theme of this year鈥檚 event, on May 7-8, is A World of Purpose. Through sessions, panels, and interactive workshops, participants will learn and engage in dialogue around models and practices that advance intellectual purpose, growth, character, and well-being鈥攖he four dimensions of the 4D Experience鈥攂oth in and out of the classroom as well as through research and scholarship. Members of the 吃瓜大本营 community can register for the event听.